RELATIONSHIPS

Am I a failure when it comes to having relationships with the opposite sex? Why can't I seem to have a relationship that I can describe as growing from leaps to bounds? I know what my soul wants; I know what my body wants,it is the same thing it has been searching for from the beginning of time- the need to give and receive love. I often ask myself, why am I such a failure? Is it because of the kind of girls I ask out? Come to think of it I have always preferred the nice looking ones with an aura of innocence. The once who are reluctant to have a relationship, let alone a serious one, which is what I want. As I write now I look up and heave a sign and ask, why do nice guys have to have it rough? Is it because the girls are bent on proving to the nice guys that all girls are bad? Is it because the nice guys fail to understand that not the frail and innocent looking girls are the good once? or maybe it is because the guy just fails to understand that he is simply not lucky.